The flowchart of the situation

Afraid

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Hesitant

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Tired

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In pain

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EVASION or SUBMISSION

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Evasion--- New possibilities! (May be)

Immersion in day dreams about new possibilities in life

Trials to change current situation

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Hiding the pain

Resisting the pain

Suppressed feelings

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Tired

In pain

(New possibilities!) - Maybe------- Submission

temporary joy

New challenges

Blurry future

Ups and downs

Place for regrets and what-could-have-beens

Escalated situations

Hurts

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Tired

In pain

Does it sound all the same???